Pretending
Let me ask you a question. Do you always care about your friend's relationship or your family member lifestyle? And do you also care about people around you include your neighbor's issues or problem facing? If you don't care about people lifestyle and anything you are trying doing. Please am I begging you now, stop it. Because it is a bad habit. Never pretend about something, you know. Because it can make you weak and destroy your lifestyle or identity. From today, not tomorrow, try as possible to change your attitude and behavior to start caring about yourself and people around you. If you are doing this, you will totally find your family members, coworkers and close friend, who will care about you as well. Never pretend that you are caring about someone lifestyle, because if he or she later knows, that you pretend to him or her. He or she can stay away or far away from you because you are not trusted. Is better to show it in many ways that you are not a pretender.
Failure
Never say this terrible words to yourself again or in public, if you are working with a group of people or organization. (I will be happy if I fail). Don't be afraid, because fears always make a million of people not to succeed, if you want to succeed in life, you have to take some risk, because life is full of risk. Many people always face the same problem and issues, because fears from the past also take place in the current, they are not ready to change their behavior. Be Never afraid of who you are or problem facing. Never think this way again, if you always think it every day such as (if you have been facing a lot of failure or rejection letter, and you wanna submit another application letter after a few weeks, and you are doubting that if you submit this application again, it can be rejected) No... Things most of us don't know is that. Failure doesn't mean, we can't achieve or succeed in life. Everyone learns from their mistakes to make them stronger. Did you know why millions of people fail? Is because when they are applying for a job, they will not read the terms and conditions of the job, before applying. They did not have patience for recognizing the mistake, before applying back. If you are among people who always worry or think about their failure daily, please stay away from them. Otherwise, you may ruin your career and regrets being in life.
Never wait for tomorrow
If you want to do something important, never say you will wait for another day because the better day can be the worst day, you will not expect. For instance, if your mother calls or sends a message to you to see her, urgently. She may have some reason and you later told her that you can't come again, that you will see her another day. On your way going to visit her, suddenly you have an accident. You will be blaming yourself, why did I go today. But this will not be our own portion, in the name of God. The world is full of expecting value and waits. Millions of people always wait for the weekend, for holiday or vacation, going to shopping and anything that will make you and your partner feel happy. If you are among people who love doing this, stop it immediately, because you might not see another day or better day. Is good to live in the present and predict the future. All day is a better and lucky day because we sleep last night and wake up in the morning with our soul and our body. I agree with what people around me always say “live your life as if you will die tomorrow”.
Is not necessary for setting goal and my friend will first me to achieve their career
If you always think, is not necessary and important in setting a goal in life. Please stop thinking negative, because this can ruin your life and properties. For Instance, you are working in a big organization or company and your monthly salary is 1.5 million and you don't set your goal on how to spend it, because of another day, you will need it. And you later spend it miserly like going to club to drink and eat catfish. In life, you will definitely find someone who has your dreams and goals in life. That doesn't mean, you should give up because in life let me do my own and do your own. That mean you can't hold me from reaching my goal. Is only mad and crazy people who give up, because he and his friend is selling the same thing or working together in the same company, later he or she left the company. Doesn't mean, if you and your friend is working in the same company, and you are thinking negative that he might first you to achieve that goal faster. Stop thinking this way, because you will not move forward. If you believe in yourself and God, that the work you are doing also will make you successful, don't give up. Never listen to what bad people say because they want you to move backward not forward in life.
Imperfections
Never think, that you are the only one who have a lot of flaws because you might not know that someone around you also have the same flaws. Always keep in mind, that insecurities don't leave us alone. While millions of people are trying to control them, not to affect their life, why other allow insecurities affect their life and properties totally. Imperfections make us who we are and later make us different from people. If you sit down alone, thinking about imperfections in life, is a miserly. Everybody in life has a lot of flaws.
Jealous
Don't feel too much of jealous with people around you, let it be average. Because is normal to be jealous, but if is too much, it can ruin your life. But if you are among people who didn't feel jealous you will find the easily way to achieve your goal when others are not ready. Out of 100% people who sit down together and complain about their lifestyle. Is only 40% can stand up and defend their lifestyle in many ways to be successful and feel happy while 60% can't stand up to defend their lifestyle about what they need. Feeling happy with your family members, coworkers and close friends is better than feeling jealous of them. If you are hardworking, you will definitely find what you want and more. Don't give up.
Doomed
Most people like saying this horrible words to themselves such as doomed, dullard, mad and crazy. Because they didn't know the meaning of the terrible words. For instance, when you sit down alone and thinking negative, you can mistakenly tell yourself, that you are doomed to being alone. This means you marked for certain death. When you stop thinking or telling yourself and others this terrible words, you find a good partner that, he or she will stay with you forever. For instance; in a relationship, if you don't have a strong relationship with our partner, is because you didn't trust each other. Everything in life is full of risk, try as much as possible to take a risk that will not lead you to death. If you always rejected whenever you submit an application letter, don't give. Because one day, you didn't expect will lead to success by being approved.
I must.....
You always make used of this sentence that start with these words “I must” is a bad belief you should stop it now. If you can't make fulfill a promise, never say 'I must ' such as I must stay with you forever, because of my properties, children. After some year, you and your partner divorce.
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