Everybody was born nature that is why some of us don’t take nonsense and take all things personally. Millions of us don’t care if is hard or not to take things personally, but is better to remove it from your character or behaviors, to live a meaningful and comfortable life without thinking negative and health problem. Most things will hear from others or people around us about ourselves, not everything we should take personal because it will just waste our energy and time that can be used on other important things in life while arguing with each other. Here are few things you should not take personal when you hang out with your friend or when you and your co-workers have some fight.
At Queue
For instance; you went to bank to withdraw and out of four ATM is only one that is working, and some come and meet you to allow him or her to withdraw first, because he or she had an emergency call from his wife, never take it personally just tell him or her that there is no big due in helping each other or if someone is push in front of you at filling station to buy fuel (Petrol). Because everything in life is turned by turn, it will definitely reach your time if you have patience. If you notice that the person is immature or unwilling, be smart and wiser enough and act like a mature person. There is no sense in arguing because an argument can cause an unexpected fight that can lead to another thing.
Traffic jams
Everybody always changes their behavior when there in traffic jams. Such as if one car wants to overtake their car to pass without taking any permission from them. But you didn’t need to take it personally, that what such of nonsense is that, you want to overtake my car without any permission to hold on. Keep in mind that does not make any change if you allow them to overtake, all you will reach where you are going either office or coming home. For example; when I and my daddy are coming back home, and raining is falling heavy and one car from nowhere just pass my daddy car with speed after some hours, his car got an accident, this will not be our portion. You can be embarrassed or frustrated but never think about it, is a crazy thing. Never think negative that traffic jam has caused you a lot of problems. Always patience and do something fun such as playing music in the car to stop your worry, this will help you to relax your body before you start driving back.
Online comments
If you are a person who likes browsers online every day, you will know how hard to handle a bad comment from your friends on Facebook. I always wonder myself, why most of us always take the online comment personally, let me ask you a question? Do you know the person? Have you met him or her before? Do you know where he or she lives? If you say No. Why are you waste your time take their comment personally or you find someone who you are trying to correct online and he or she didn’t agree with, why you didn’t leave him or her alone and find something else to do online by checking your mail. Everybody has their own different ways of thinking. Let them say what they like and you should keep following your own positive thoughts.
Food
People always do something bad especially food, when you cook in your house or you went out to buy food for someone if is the person that have mental, you will see him or her smell the food before he or she eats. If the person didn’t appreciate what you have, it will hurt you and that does not mean you should take it personally. Always remember we all have different taste of food, is not bad when your spouse tell you the food is delicious, never take it personally. You can tell him or her with a smile to cook his own food for you as well. Say the truth is his food is delicious than yours.
Someone stares at you
For ladies: if you go out for shopping and men stare at you never take it personally, doesn’t mean anything. He can like your hair style, beautiful and dress. Try to pay good attention to those who looks at you and understand them when they make fun of you or look at you as a strange person. When I hang out with my friends, I stare at a lady always, later on, I realized that she is getting annoyed, because of that I went to meet her, why is she taking it personally. She asks me why I liked looking at her, I told her she looks beautiful and I will be happy if I and she can be a friend. If someone stares or look at you and you take it personally, trust me is selfish and childish.
Customers Attention
For example; if you are working in cyber café, you will see the different type of people with different character, but anything bad or wrong thing done to you either they scream at you or get angry never take them personal because people often say “All Customers Are Right”. Without them, your boss will not able to pay you your salary at the end of the month. You should try to understand them, and never allow argument because it can also cause the problem. Let the stress be at your work, not your home.
Taking all thing comes around you personally is such as bad habit and this is the good time to stop because it causes wasting of time and depression. My advice to you is to stay away from people that might hurt you and things that can prevent you from reaching your goal. When you stop taking things personally, you will easily find all things without stressful and you will stop thinking negative and worry yourself.
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