This is the good time to think about people around us, you should try to forgive before the new year (2016) end. Who have done something wrong, hurt or bad to us?. December is the end month of the year, it's the best or good time to forgive our enemies, friends & family member. We frequently hold onto anger which prevents us from achieving our aims & living a happy life. If you are truly ready to live a happy year, you should try to forgive people around you include yourself, no matter what they have done wrong.
1. Your parents
You have to forgive your parents before another new year (2016) end, no matter what they have done good or bad & you should always be thankful and grateful to your parents for what they have done in your life still today because you will definitely need their help, encourage and support. When last I going to the mosque last two week ago, I hear from one of my friends said, that his mummy is the
worst and bad mummy in the world. (This is the reason, I decided to write this few articles) & it was the most frightening words I have ever heard from anyone. I can't say that my own mummy is perfect because no one is perfect in the world, everybody is just a trial. I loved her so much, & am ready to give her what she wants including my life. Each day, when I go to the mosque I usually pray for my parents for bringing me to life or giving birth to me. They usually tell me to change some aspects of my lifestyle, but I will not and this can lead or cause misunderstandings between us such as (abusing or causing) but I will later forgive them and feel happy throughout the day, because they are my parents forever, when they left I will still remember them. If you have little relationship problems with your parents, try to sit down together and solve it or forgive them. If they truly love you, they will do something that will make you feel happy often.
2. Your enemies
Try all your possible best to forgive your enemies around you, is the hardest thing you should definitely do now before it too later. Always remember this proverb or quote "Love your enemies as you love your neighbor. It is not easy to love your enemies, that have done something wrong or bad to you. But there is a nice wisdom from the proverb”. Living unwilling is the worst way to ruin your career in life. Don't think about, what they have done wrong or bad, try to forgive them and separate from them, to live a good life. You can learn different life lessons from your enemies. Try to listen carefully to what they are trying to say, but never take their words personally again. You can believe it or not, is not by force. Many people thank their enemies daily because they help them to become stronger in life.
3. Yourself
We always forget to ask Almighty Allah to forgive us, for what we have done bad & Last year wasn't as successful as I wanted it to be, but this year I will definitely make it with all my effort. The major problem is that we usually forgive people around us and forget to ask God to forgive us. If last year is full of mistake and bad attitude, pray unto God to forgive you. Every new year is a great opportunity for everyone, to start a new life. Don't forget to remember your mistake or problem you are able to solve, because it will help you to become stronger & wiser. Always make sure, you don't repeat or make the same mistake again.
4. Your Ex. Girlfriend
If you Ex. Girlfriend has done something bad or hurt you such as broken up, left you alone or divorced you without any reason, this is another new year (2016) to forgive her. Don't think about your past relationship, always think about the present. Try to learn from your mistake, when you did something wrong & move on. Never blame people around you for a ruined relationship. Whenever you forgive your Ex. Girlfriend, try to forget about her, And pray to God to provide you a beautiful girl, that you will able to understand and have a good relationship with each other. Many people don't find love again, because what their Ex. Girlfriend has done to them in the past, they didn't want the same problem to repeat.
5. Your neighbors
I always have a complicated relationship with my neighbor. He is an old man & wise, so he didn't miss the chance to judge me about my dress and lifestyle. He always thinks negative thoughts not positive, whenever I see him. But something I think about her negative thoughts, helps me to improve my lifestyle because I didn't know my own mistakes.
Try to be close to them, by living in harmony and peace. Forgive them no matter what they have done wrong. Or sending message “Thank you for being a good and wonderful neighbor to me”
6. Your boss
OK, Not all bosses are not good. Let us imagine, if you are a boss and your employees or workers are playing in the office or posting picture on Facebook is more necessary than doing extra work. What could you do or action you will take if you are a boss? Could you say “it's Okay” or “you didn't mind”? If your boss always strict at you this year, is not because they don't like you. It might be because you have done something wrong or painful. Before you judge your boss, try to understand him or her. Forgiving your boss, is not something bad or strange and be thankful and appreciate the opportunity to accept you in their company as workers & financial situation.
When you forgive people around you, who have hurt you, or done something wrong, you will feel free to move on and achieve your aims in life. Forgiveness is necessary for life. It can be very hard to forgive your neighbor, yourself, parent, enemies and boss as well as ex. but you will never be happy if you feel too much of hatred. Try to learn how to forgive other. I wish you Happy New Year & I hope this year will bring more happiness and joy than last year.
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