If you earn money than your friends? It's not easy to spend a lot of free time with rich people around you. Don't feel ashamed of being poor one but that doesn't mean that you should separate from your rich friends. If you are true friends, your behaviour will always prevent you from keeping in touch. However, you can feel uncomfortable or so sad when you can't afford something they can, here are tips to help you cope with your wealthier friends.
Never depend on them
Don't use your friends as a source of Income or money, by expecting them to pay for you when you go or hang out. Don't wait for them to provide you everything you need, they are not your partner, family member or parents. If there are wealthy, it doesn't mean they have a lot of extra cash with them but if they had it, is not yours & you have no right to spend it. If they want to buy you something
special or present you, shouldn't expect them to pay for you every time or regularly when you hang out or Go out together.
Tell them truth rather than lie
Always tell your friends truth such as if you are invited to an expensive party or night club but you didn't have enough cash or money with you, tell them the truth. That you can't afford the money and skip the party to next time. Don't be ashamed of it. If you tell them to lie, they will treat you as a liar. Don't tell them an illusory reason why you can't join them. The truth is always better than a lie.
Never borrow money from them
If you are facing problems or difficulties and you need money. You can go and meet them to help you out and don't let then ask before providing the money back. But it shouldn't become regularly or a habit. It isn't a problem for wealthy people to share some money with you, but it's a very big problem for you to cope with debts. Don't try to be financially independent and exaggerated your opportunities.
Help them out
Yes, you can be very poor or poverty than your friends but you can have good advantages as well. You can be better and good at something that they are not. Help them to solve their problems, if you can. That will make them forget about the money they have with you & they will treat you as a real friend forever. We can't buy a real friendship, therefore, you need to show your valve always without any money
Never pretend you are rich
When you are part of your wealthy friends, it's can tempt by the devil to pretend as wealthy too. Don't do that. Pretending is not a good option in any situation you found yourself. Note that: sooner or later, everyone will find your true financial situation & they will later ignore you not because of your budget, because of your lie. Mind what you can afford and effort and don't cross that limit. A real and true friend will like you not for the lack of money, is because of your truth and kind.
Always plan your day carefully
When you are in a group of wealthier people. It helps you to avoid unexpected money but you won't have to borrow money from your friends. Try to arrange something cheap and low cost that you can afford. If your friends are going on vacation to the cinema, don't lend money from people around you to join them, because of debt.
Never spend much
When hanging out, working and traveling with rich people, don't follow their example. When you dine out together, don't order the same expensive meals or food and drink, look for cheaper ones. Buy what you can afford adequately without getting j to debt to show your financial capacity. Be yourself & they will accept you the way you are if they are good friends.
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